I thank you all for your help. I will just continue to play single player and hope that in the future there may be an option that allows VR in multi player. I thank you all for your time and hope all is well for all of you.
I just got an oculus quest 2 head set,,, I went thought and set it up in the regular game to work in VR,,, and looks awesome. but when I go to log in thought truckers MP,,, even though I have the up to date with 1.40 version since I made the changes to get it working in the VR headset is says it not compatible with truckers MP? Has anyone else tried that.